Lets talk about resolutions…
As you all know today is also known as
“Pick an awesome resolution and 9.9/10 don’t stick with it Day“
Personally, I like hearing other peoples resolutions. It is interesting to me to see what people want to change in their life in order to so called “better themselves.” I appreciate the effort that people put in to reflect on their year and decide what went wrong/went right. I wish for the world’s sake that this reflecting happened more often.
To those people that have made resolutions I want to encourage you. I know how difficult it can be and I think it is great that you have already reflected.
For the past few years I have made New Year’s resolutions. The majority of the time it doesn’t look like an every.single.day habit for all 365 days.
Instead, it sort of looks like…oh I’ll do that today (Day 7). Whoops I forgot about that, I’ll be sure to do that today (Day 85). Hmm it would probably be smart to do that now that I have time (Day 320).
Looks like I should try this again this year (Day 1).
However, this year I am going to
really really really really really
really really really really really
Scratch that not “try” but rather….commit.
Over the years I have read almost all (well it feels like anyway) every self-help book on the market. I have downloaded so many apps to help beat procrastination, maximize efficiency, build habits, etc.
After my thorough research and countless hours of late night reading I have come to a conclusion.
A step by step process that I know will lead to success.
It appears so complex but it actually quite simple.
Ready for it?
Step 1 of 1:
In life there are no short cuts. There is no app that will magically make us read a book a week, read the Bible every night, exercise everyday at 6am, pray every morning, start an organization, be more thankful, take more risks etc. Believe me if there was I would have found it.
The only way to change your life is to take action.
Swim out of the stagnant water.
Become a man or woman of action.
I want to touch on something I read a few months ago that always puts things into perspective for me. It reads…
“Instead of saying ‘I don’t have time’ try saying ‘it’s not a priority’ and see how that feels.”
I can tell you right now. It does not feel good to use this technique. It knocked me down flat on my back. However, by doing this I could see the sky.
For example, as a Christian I realized that I was not praying often. During college it is difficult to make time out of your day. This became my excuse. “I just didn’t have time.”
Really? Not enough time?
How many minutes do I spend on social media in a day?
How many minutes do I sit on the couch doing absolutely nothing?
How many minutes do I worrying about tomorrow?
How many minutes I have used to make excuses?
Therefore, I recently started to say, “Prayer is just not a priority”…which hurt me to even say. This allowed me to realize that prayer and my relationship with Christ is my #1 priority but my actions are not following suit.
Therefore, friends I encourage you in 2017 to decide what your priorities are in living the life you have been called to lead.
I hope that you are able to escape the stagnant water, commit, and ACT every.single.day. not just when you feel like it.
If you do, I can assure you, that 2017 will be the year of a lifetime.
*I want to thank all of my readers for following me along this journey in 2016. Thank you for all of your support, advice, and encouragement. I hope to continue to receive your support in 2017. I want to wish you and your families a Happy New Year!
Love you all. -Nick