Like the majority of the world…
whenever I start a new year’s resolution I fail miserably after the first few weeks.
After I get off track, I seem to give up because….well I lost.
My bad habits won.
I get so discouraged at my lack of willpower that it seems to zap away all my strength to persevere.
I have learned over the past few years that I have this problem.
Well—most of us do.
We seem to forget that we are human and that changing a bad habit cold turkey is a lot harder than it looks.
For certain habits, maybe even miraculous.
The problem I have noticed is that we neglect to reflect.
We fail and then just like that the weight of our failure drags us down.
We do not use our failure to understand ourselves more, but rather allow it to destroy us.
Therefore, I encourage you all to start early this year with your resolutions.
A few days early at least.
Whether it be not clicking your snooze button.
Running a mile a day.
Cutting back on the smoking.
Reading thirty minutes before bed.
Sending a text message of thankfulness each day.
This way you have a few days to fail and reflect on that failure.
And move on.
Make 2018 the year of using failure to fuel your engine.
Take the risks.
Take the leap.
Take the time to reflect.
And make the change that will better the world.